Thursday, May 28, 2009

3 day weekend

I spent all week counting the seconds that went by. Then, it finally came...our three day weekend had come. I already knew what I was going to do all weekend. My plan was to kick back and relax but my parents had other plans! #1 on their list was the Iris garden! I was really pumped when I heard this news because it's so much fun to look at plants with two screaming babies. And when I heard how long the drive was I was jumping for joy!

After a day of driving and looking at Irises I figured the rest of the weekend could go according to MY schedule. But no. Instead of watching TV and soaking to a prune in the hot tub it turns out we were having "lunch" with some friends. You are probably wondering why "lunch" is in quotation marks. Well that is because I'm pretty sure lunch and dinner were planned. Either that or that was the longest lunch I have ever had!

In the end, when I didn't have steam coming out of my ears, I figured that going to the Iris garden was kinda fun and having lunch at the beach wasn't bad either. All I can say is that the weekend was definitely not wasted!


rainbow park with the TWINS!

On Saterday we brang the twins to rainbow park. they liked it. we went on the slide with the twins and on the dinosour with the twins and we climbd up the slide with out the twins and when we left they cride.

I Got A Snail His Names KIng KEVIN!

Okay so in class we are learning about Organisaims, the animals we are leaning about are bettle, Patato Bug, snail, Guppy. So we have a trarium for the bettles and Patato bugs and aquraruim for the snails and guppies. My teacher Mrs. G said we get to take home our animals on May 22 right after my mom's B-Day and Celebrate Learning night! Our table group deicided who was getting who but sience all our guppies died, I know it is sad, so anyway sience al our guppies dies no one could have them. We had 3 snails and on the day we got to take them hoe one of our bess bettles dies so now we have 1 bess bettle and 1 patato bug although we used to have two.

On May 22 I ot a snail I named him King Kevin because the named just seemed grand like him. When I brought him home he was only in a little cup. than one day my mom bought him a new home that was a total upgrade. Wescott of course not a surprise said "It's just a snail! You pampor it too much."

You may think it's boring and not cool but to me he's the perfect pet!

King Kevin's first house


His new castle!

Sunday, May 17, 2009

American As It Gets!

On my first full day back in the United States, Wescott, Yve, Otto and I went to a Mariners / Red Sox Game at Safeco Field. With crystal clear skies, warm sun, hot dogs and a beer (for me; sorry kids, not in Vietnam anymore!), I can't think of a better way to integrate back into American life!

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Home At Last

We made it!! Tuck and Jones burst into the biggest smiles and started giggling upon site of Mom, Wescott, Yve and Otto... Our time in Hanoi really cemented our family, which is now complete. Lisa and I always knew someone was missing, which is why we set out for on this adoption journey several years ago. We just didn't know there were two people missing from the family :-).

Tuck & Jones U.S. Citizens!

We cleared through immigration in Los Angeles this morning, making our two little guys the latest citizens of the United States! The flight from Vietnam was, well, um... Let's just say it had its ups and downs... Though special thanks is due to the American Tokyo to LA flight crew; I would not have made it without them!

Getting ready to board the last flight to Seattle. It's oversold and all I can say is "so sorry" to the poor people sitting near us :-).


-- mobile posting from the field!!

Over the Pacific We Go

It's not my recommendation that anyone travels with twin boys under the age of 2 alone to the other side of the planet... But, if you do, then hopefully you'll have as nice of a flight crew as we had on American. They really went the extra mile, spending hours with Tuck and Jones, taking one so I could get the other asleep, making bottles... really awesome. Here's a couple of shots:

Two of the temp nannies on board the Tokyo to LA flight.


Passed out, taking up 4 seats...


Tuck seeing Mt. Rainier for the first time... Tuck, this view will never get old!

Friday, May 15, 2009

Made it to Tokyo!

After a series of ordeals that involved making me run from one end of the terminal to the other 5 times to get tickets and luggage straightened out at the Hanoi airport, resulting in us almost missing our flight (I got there 3 hours ahead of time!), we boarded the plane successfully. Lots of help from the crew, and the kids did really well: Tuck had a worried face for the first 30 minutes, but didn't get overly stressed. Jones just settled in and started throwing stuff around the cabin, so it was pretty much business as usual for him!

Lucky for us, the flight was relatively empty, and the boys actually slept an hour or so. They had a nice bassinet set up for Jones, and then waited an hour into his blissful sleep to tell me he was too big, and woke him up; which of course woke up Tuck... Ah well!

Anyway, we're hanging in a hotel room at the airport, where I have successfully been able to keep Tuck and Jones awake and active... fingers crossed it will pay off in the form of a few hours sleep over the Pacific!

See you on the other side!

Now Boarding...

We're all packed up. Plane reservations are done. Snacks and bottles loaded. Goodbyes complete.

Tuck, Jones and I are leaving Hanoi tonight at 11:30pm, bound for Tokyo. After a day of site seeing and trying hard to keep the boys awake, we then fly to Los Angeles, where Dang Van Thang and Dang Van Chien become United States citizens upon clearing immigration.

Because I am sure flying is going to SO MUCH FUN with these two, we board one more plane and land in Seattle Saturday afternoon, just a mere 33 hours later.

I hope I make it :-)

The Morning Routine

On the morning of our departure, the rain was threatening to come down, but it didn't. Not that it would have stopped the three of us from our morning routing which Tuck, Jones and I have kept up each and every morning for the past month. It is probably the thing I will miss most about Hanoi and my time here.

Wake up call is typically 5:30am; earlier more times than not; later if I am supremely lucky. After a quick bottle, a round of jumping on the trampoline (that would be me), a change and outfit selection, Tuck and Jones climb aboard their chariot and we head out to Ho Kiem Lake.

I estimate that I have looped this lake at least 200 times, and every day greets us with new sights, familiar faces and new friends. We're usually in power-walk mode, easily outpacing almost everyone except the runners. But, we never get very far before someone screams "Vietnam?" or "sinh đôi?" or "photo?"... Almost everyone looks at us; gawks at us more accurately. Most smile and wave at the twins, and then give me a look of sometimes bewilderment, sometimes approval. I've gotten high fives, waves, thumbs up and pats on the back. It amazes me the effect that these two little guys have on people. They hit almost everyone they roll by with a tickle of happiness, causing almost everyone to pause and acknowledge their presence.

Between 5:30a - 6:30a, you can see it all. Classes in fan dancing, aerobics, Tai Chi, sword dancing. People exercising in every conceivable way, with every kind of arm flapping possible. Grandfathers with their grandchildren. Meditation Man, who lays his body on a think metal fence almost every morning, not moving a muscle. A line-up of 25 or so ladies patting and pounding each other on their backs.... I could go on forever!

Below is a slide show of some of the sights...

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

"Hey Tuck, Let's Jam!"

We finally got our passports today... sweet photos! Me and Tuck are outta here... We're thinking Great Barrier Reef, maybe Maui, before checkin' out our new crib on the Island!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Fish Store on a Bike - finally!

He has eluded me for weeks... this guy on an ancient bicycle serves as the Old Quarter's mobile fish store. I have been trying to get a shot of him ever since I first saw him from a taxi a couple months back. I was in a bike taxi with the twins this morning, and there he was! I really want a turtle, but I don't think they'll let me take it through customs...

OK, I can now leave Hanoi a happy man... :-)

Monday, May 11, 2009

It's Official: Tuck & Jones Become Part of the Sharples-Aufranc Family!

There is no turning back - today was Giving & Receiving Ceremony Day at the Hanoi Ministry of Justice! After 3.5 months since we arrived, 8.5 months since we got matched, and over 3 years since we embarked on this journey, Tucker Dang Van Thang Sharples & Jones Dang Van Chien Sharples are now officially ours.

The ceremony was kind of like getting married at the County Courthouse: very proper and official, pretty much business, and relatively short. My friend Kathy Ramsey who lives in Hanoi Towers came along for moral support and be the cameraman. Also present was Thang, the twins' part-time nanny for the past 3.5 months, Loan who is with our agency, and a representative from the Dong Anh Orphanage. The Director of the Orphanage also came, but for some reason did not come to the actual ceremony. A very official woman from the Ministry of Justice conducted the procedings, in Vietnamese, and we had English and French translators (there was another couple with a baby from France joining in the G&R).

Under the watchful eye of Ho Chi Minh's golden bust in the corner of the room, I signed lots of papers, a huge log book with mug shots of the twins pasted in taken probably a year or so ago, stood up to receive the hand-off from the official, who at the end made it a point to say "they are now officially yours!"

Kind of hard to describe the feelings... it might be a little like the day you find out your baby can come out of the ICU after a premature birth perhaps. They became ours in all of our hearts a while ago, but there has been a big conditional hanging over us for so long. It's a relief, only to be bested by the visas to enter the United States in hand, which hopefully will be at the end of the week if all goes according to plan...

Lisa, Wescott, Yve & Otto - Tuck, Jones and I really missed you today, but we have a video you can see, and more importantly, we'll be coming home very soon!!

Here are some pics of the day:

Waiting for the Ceremony to begin (L to R: representative from Dong Anh, Cliff, Tuck, Jones, Thang)



Ministry of Justice Official with The Boys right after the ceremony


Tuck, Thang, Kathy and Jones outside Minitry of Justice


Jones outside Ministry of Justice: "Yeah, I'm a Sharples!"


Tuck outside the Ministry of Justice: "Wait, I'm a what?!"


Twins Tag Team for the past month: "Thang, I would NOT have survived without you! From the bottom of my heart, thank you."


The Gang: from L-R: Random Woman, Random Woman's Baby (they just got into the picture), Loan from PLAN, Thang, Tuck, Mr. Minh (Orphanage Director), Kathy, Jones, Orphanage Representative

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Happy Mother's Day Mom, Love Tuck & Jones

Wish you were here... or actually, wish we were there :-). These flowers we're holding were for you, until we used them as bats and beat each other with them, then tried eating them, but Dad wouldn't let us...


p.s. - the sign says "Thanks Mom!"

We still got it!

Everywhere we go we get our picture taken... I mean, it's crazy! When Dad makes the mistake of letting us out of the stroller, we get mauled by everyone. I'm a little freaked out that I'll get swine flu with all the people touching us and squeezing us. Oh well, I guess that's life with the paparazzi!

This was this morning on our daily walk:

Thursday, May 7, 2009

More Celebration at Hanoi's St. Joseph's Cathedral

Here's something I learned: the Roman Catholic Church in Vietnam, which is loyal to the Pope, is the second largest organization in the country after the Communist Party. It explains why there is so much suspicion and harassment of Catholics in the country, based in not having full control over such a large group of people. Though tensions are easing significantly this year, as evidenced by a massive gathering of the faithful on Sunday evening.

Vietnam is one of only a handful of countries that the Vatican does not have official diplomatic relations, though there is a lot of work to change that, and a Papal visit is hoped for this year. The Communist Party very recently lifted a ban on Catholics attending large church gatherings, which makes the sight I saw last Sunday particularly unusual in the city.

Thousands of people crammed the streets around the cathedral, all participating in some sort of festival that centered on the Virgin Mary. There was a massive processional around the church, and the entire crowd sang hyms together. They use the facade of the cathedral as a giant backdrop, decorating its usually drab exterior with banners, insignia and flowers. It is all pretty remarkable when you learn about the history of the church in Vietnam.

For a communist country, where you might expect openly religous gestures of any faith to be discouraged or muted, it actually seems entirely the opposite. Pagodas, temples, cathedrals, alters in every shop... it's all part fo the amazing texture of this place. Here's a couple of shots from the evening:

Monday, May 4, 2009

Hang Quat Street: Spiritualism meets Capitalism

This has got to be my favorite street in Hanoi. Most of the Old Quarter of the city is still largely organized by guilds that were formed hundreds of years ago, each focusing on a different trade. On Hang Quat, it's all about outfitting your inner Buddha, serving as what seems to be a cross between a wholesale market for pagoda builders to your go-to street for the ultimate home alter.

In our goal to bring some of the Vietnamese culture into our home, we decided that a home alter, or as it is sometimes called, a butsudan, needed to be acquired. With that mission, I set out to Hang Quat. I have walked this street for weeks, and had carefully evaluated all of the styles, materials, sizes and quality levels that the various butsudan makers had to offer. I settled on No. 62 Hang Quat, one of the smaller shops next to the only pagoda on the street.


Mrs. Ha, the proprietor, spoke no English, nor did her mother or any of the other people in the immediate vicinity. But, she did pull out an English to Vietnamese translation book, used a "call a friend" option to try to get someone to translate via cell phone, and finally found a man several stalls down who knew enough English to get some of my questions answered.

I selected No. 62 because they had nice wood, not heavily lacquered or painted... the simplest design I could find. Of course, that didn't mean I couldn't pimp my alter! This is half the fun, and so, for just 100,000 VND (~$3) I got some sweet pink neon lights installed, some corner railings and a dragon-themed top molding piece. Once we broke the language barrier, I was invited in the back of the shop for tea and they showed me how to fully outfit the alter, with everything from little wine cups, flower vases, a pot to stick insense sticks in and statues representing whatever it was I was interested in enshrining.

What's interesting is that no matter what religion you are, you typically have some sort of home alter in your home to use as a meditation focus point and a place to honor and pray to your ancestors. So, if you are Christian, you might put a statue of the Virgin Mary. If you're Hindu, maybe it's a statue of Ganesha. I opted for the three Hunn Kings, representing Happiness, Prosperity and Longevity.

While they suggested that we pack everything up, load me and my purchases onto Mrs. Ha's moped to get back to Hanoi Towers, I opted for a taxi. We parted company, promising to come back and say hi with the twins before leaving.

Now my only problem is how I am going to get this thing home...!